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June 9, 2003
The New RE
Before going to the new RE, I had many thoughts and feelings of uncertainty. I had heard from others in the are that used the RE that he didnt have the greatest bedside manner and he had a "god-like" complex. Coming from the previous RE who was always filed with encouragement, called the night before all my bloodtests and dealing with such a sensitive and emotional condition to begin with, I was scared. When I walked into the office, they greeted me by name, I was impressed already especially since this was my first visit. The RE himself came out to the waiting room and introduced himself, shoke our hands and walked us back. Hmmmm, interesting concept- the old RE never did this. I was lucky to see him occasionally when I went in to b/w and u/s. The new RE (Dr D) started reviewing my chart and was stumped. He was absolutely amazed that I was not pg by now- he said both my IVF's were test-book perfect- perfect eggs, perfect lining, perfect hormone levels. But no baby. He spent a great deal of time puring through the records and he finally sat back in his chair and said' "where are you diagnostic test results?" Brendan and I looked at one another puzzeled. Diagnostic tests, what are you talking about? Dr D was absolutely amazed that we had never had any preliminary bloodwork done- including genetic testing. He said with low counts as bad as B's were, it is most likely a genetic issue. He told us we have 3 choices- another IVF (which he doesnt want to twist or arms with), donor IUI or adoption. He said that provided all the results come back and point towards a male genetic issue, DI is our only choice other than adoption. If everything comes back fine, he says we should consider IVF BUT also consider DI at the same time. He said that for some reason, some women just cant get pg with IVF but do with other means. He recommended a cryobank in CA for us to use.
Bloodtests
We went and had the bloodtests done on the same day as the appt and the results still arent back. They said anywhere from 2-6 weeks. You would think by now I would be used to this, but I am not. Patience is not a virtue of mine!
Decisions
My old job has been calling and wanting me to go back to work. I have thought and thought about it and cant make up my mind. A part of me thinks that it might help keep my mind busy. But then the other part of my brain, reminds me how much I hated that place and why would I even consider it. I definitely have the split personality going these days!
A new little "addition" to our family
For my wedding gift, B presented me with a beautiful basset puppy. She instantly became the light of my love and stole my heart. All my life I had names picked for my children and my favorite name was Madeline, a name B did not like. So my first "baby" was named Madeline. I have treated this little princess as though she were the queen bee- I've painted her nails, dresses her in Halloween cotumes, you name it! Ever since I got Madee, I have wanted another. Its just like they say with people who gets tatoos- once you have one, you keep getting more. Bassets are very different creatures- not a dog for everyone but definitely a breed I love. So for 3 years I have been after B to get another one and he always had an excuse. When we lived in the townhouse he said the yard wasnt big enough, then it was when we get a bigger house, then when we got the yard fenced in. Well all those things happened and I was still waiting. Finally a local rescue organization held a big event for bassets and I took it upon myself to register and sign up to be an adoptive family. Boy did I not know what I was getting into! They actually set up a home inspection and you have to have a vet check and everything! Well, needless to say, we passed. So last Saturday, we adopted a new little baby. Trevor is 5 months old and just the sweetest and most lovable little boy there is. He has beautiful long basset ears and barks like a basset- all the things Madee doesnt do or have! He is a vocal little guy, always talking to you and letting you know he is there. I am so happy to have him!!
A friend
When I started down the road of infertility, I had no one to talk to. I found solace in the male IF board and met a wonderful friend Aimee. Aimee is about to have her very biggest wish granted- she is about to become a mom. Aimee, I love you girl and I am so excited for you and Kevin. You both will be the best parents.
Hugs to all,
J
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