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Go the Distance
Exploring International Adoption
Part Two
By Michele St. Martin
The term "homestudy" is misleading – while the social worker will want to ensure that you have a safe environment with room for a new addition to the family, you won't have to pass a white glove test. The social worker's job is to get to know you and your family and to ensure that you are prepared to be parents.
Adopters are often told to relax and be honest with the social worker. This isn't always easy, but if you have skeletons in your closet that might emerge during any of the police, court or FBI record checks, it's best to talk things over with the social worker. Social workers don't expect perfection – they have likely heard worse. Felony or child abuse convictions or fatal illnesses are examples of some of the only situations likely to prevent you from adopting, though countries' standards do vary. Social workers look for evidence that you've learned from your mistakes and have the qualities necessary to be a loving parent.
Other parts of the homestudy can include letters of reference from those who know you well, a written autobiography and parenting classes.
Your paperchase will include a letter verifying your employment, and if you're married, your spouse's. You'll need birth certificates, and if applicable, marriage and divorce certificates, among other documents. A physical exam is generally required. Your documents will all need to be notarized, and then your state's Secretary of Stte will need to certify the notary's signature.
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