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Stressed Out?

Couples Spa Top 10

By Kelly Burgess

3. Don't wait until you arrive at the spa to let your preference for a male or female therapist be known. The request should be made at the time of booking.

4. If you're booking a "couples" treatment room – also referred to as a VIP suite or doubles room – ask for a description; better yet, look for images on the spa's Web site.

5. If you want to extend the treatment into a full experience, ask if the spa can serve you lunch or dinner either after or between treatments. Ask if they have a private area where you can enjoy the meal.

6. Ask if the lounge is coed or if the sexes are segregated. This is important for sharing whirlpools, saunas, gyms, swimming pools, etc. If they're not coed, you'll be separated.

7. Bring a bathing suit for the co-ed facilities.

8. If you're planning an out-of-town spa getaway, ask yourself what's important beyond the spa experience, such as gourmet cuisine, optional recreational activities and evening entertainment.

9. If your spouse prefers manicured greens to the perfect pedicure, no problem. Many resorts have both spas and golf courses. Find one that offers both, and you'll make two people happy.

10. Spas at popular resorts tend to book up quickly. To avoid disappointment, book your treatments at the same time as you reserve your room.

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