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Low-tech Ways to Choose Your Baby's Gender

Using the Shettles Method or Whelan Method to Conceive
a Boy or Girl

Part 1

By Virginia Gilbert

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Low-Tech Ways to Choose Your Baby's Gender-Using the Shettles Method or Whelan Method to Conceive a Boy or GirlOvulation kits, available in pharmacies, also can determine when a woman is ovulating, but these kits are expensive and may not be accurate for women with irregular cycles.

How to Get a "Shettles Girl"
According to Shettles, girls are harder to come by than boys. Couples need to be patient; conceiving a girl may take several months. The reason for this is that partners trying for a daughter need to stop having sex at least 2 days before ovulation, so more X sperm than Y sperm will be around to meet the egg. Even though the Xs have better staying power, it's tougher (but not impossible) for either sperm to last more than a few days. That said, the basic method to conceive a girl is this:

Immediately after a woman's menstrual period ends, she and her partner should have intercourse frequently (at least every other day) until 48 hours before ovulation. Shettles stresses that continuing to have sex beyond this point diminishes the chances of getting a girl.

How to Get a "Shettles Boy"
In a nutshell, couples hoping for a boy should do the following:

Either abstain from sex or use condoms until 4 days before ovulation. After this point, abstain entirely until 12 hours prior to ovulation; this sexual respite acts to boost a man's sperm count, a condition that Shettles maintains favors male sperm. During the 12-hour ovulatory window, a couple should have sex, preferably just once. After this, partners must use condoms if they have intercourse again in the next several days.


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Re: Low-tech Ways to Choose Your Baby's Gender by intrigued on 03/16/2010 11:44PM

my great grandmother had 13 kids, and swore all her life that she picked their gender. She said she slept on her left side (after sex) if she wanted a boy, and on her right if she wanted a girl. I always thought she was nuts, but two pregnancies later I recall that the nights I concieved my sons I did fall asleep on my left side both times. Coincidence? Im curious if the side you sleep on somehow could affect your bodily ph in a way that might actually influence the gender of surviving sperm. I know it sounds crazy- any one else ever heard of this?

Re: Low-tech Ways to Choose Your Baby's Gender by funkez.com on 02/19/2010 09:43AM

Fantastic Web site. Need opinions on choosing baby genders?

Re: Low-tech Ways to Choose Your Baby's Gender by anonymous on 02/05/2010 04:08PM

How is it playing god to use the lab procedures that have 90% success for this, but not playing god to elaborately plan intercourse pattern for the intention of choosing the baby's gender? Is a lower success rate less offensive to god?

Low-tech Ways to Choose Your Baby's Gender by Esteban on 10/15/2009 07:21PM

It's absolutely possible to choose the gender of your future baby. It's just by following 3 simple steps. You cand find out more on http://www.squidoo.com/pickmybabysgender , there you'll find an article I wrote about it. Good luck with your pick!

Re: Low-tech Ways to Choose Your Baby's Gender by WDS on 05/18/2009 10:25PM

Lol having sex while standing up what a load of crap.

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