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Life after Miscarriage

Preparing for a Healthy Pregnancy After Miscarriage

By Kim Seidel

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Take it from a woman who has experienced miscarriage twice: "There is life after miscarriage," says Christine Walker, a mother of three healthy children.

Her first miscarriage occurred in September of 1999. She was 10 weeks along during her first pregnancy. Walker's main symptom was having thick, brownish discharge for two days. She called her doctor, who told her to come in for an ultrasound. Sadly, the pictures showed no heartbeat.

Two months later, she conceived again. She and her husband Dave welcomed their oldest son, Schuyler, into the world in July 2000. They had another healthy baby, Connor, in August 2002.

The roller coaster ride continued when she experienced a second miscarriage in April 2003, and then delivered a third child, daughter Sloane, in March 2004.

"I felt very lucky to have been able to conceive, period, not to mention so quickly afterwards," says Walker, who lives with her family in Winnetka, Ill. "I'd say to keep focused on the goal, do what you can and let nature take its course."

How Common is Miscarriage?

"About 20 percent of pregnancies end in miscarriage," says Dr. Frederick Licciardi, associate director of The New York University Fertility Center in New York, N.Y. "Most of these losses are at an early stage usually from just after the missed period through about eight weeks."

Miscarriages at eight to 12 weeks also occur, but at a lower rate, Dr. Licciardi says. Miscarriages after 12 weeks are even lower.

"For most patients, the delivery rate after a miscarriage is very, very high," Dr. Licciardi says. "Just because one miscarriage occurs shouldn't worry a woman. In fact, some say women who have had miscarriages do better in the end than those who have not been pregnant."

By far, the most common cause of a miscarriage is that the embryo was genetically abnormal, Dr. Licciardi says. Other causes include anatomic problems in the woman, such as abnormally shaped uteri, which many women are born with.

Other rare causes of miscarriages are related to abnormal blood clotting or anti-body production in the mother. "While these conditions can be severe, most women with miscarriages don't have these rare issues," Dr. Licciardi says.

Finally, miscarriage is often all about age. "As a woman ages, her odds of miscarriage increase," Dr. Licciardi says. "The same factors that cause an increase in Down Syndrome as a woman gets older increase the odds of other genetic abnormalities and miscarriage."

Physical Considerations


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Re: Life after Miscarriage by anonymous on 11/11/2008 03:24PM

I also experienced a miscarriage after giving birth to 4 healthy children, twin boys, another boy, and finally a girl. My husband and I were not trying to have another child. I found myself pregnant again. I was not trilled about being pregnant again but I got used to the idea. Just as I got into the excitement of having another child, I found out that my baby did not have a heartbeat. I got a second opinion hoping it was just a mistake but I had lost my child. I was crushed!! I am currently 35 years old and my husband and I are considering trying for another child. It has been 5 years since the miscarriage but I am still a little fearful about losing another child. But I leave it in the Lord's hands.

Re: Life after Miscarriage by Mary on 11/06/2008 06:16PM

We had been blessed with three children, then when I was pregnant the fourth time, I miscarried at 10 weeks. It was devestating. I didn't think it would happen to me. Here we are one year later, pregnant again. I am so happy that I am, but also am scared to miscarry again.

Re: Life after Miscarriage by Martine on 10/08/2008 09:23PM

I also had 2 miscarriages. I had one at around 7 weeks and another at 11 weeks. I never felt any symptoms. I had no pain, no discharge of any kind. I only found out that I miscarried when I went to my clinic appointments and there was no heartbeat. Following the second miscarriage at 11 weeks, my doctor asked me whether I wanted to test the fetus. I agreed. The test did not find any chromosomal abnormalities or anything that could explain the miscarriage. I was 37 and 38 at the time of the miscarriages. I did tons of blood work and all tests were negative. I was left puzzed yet I did not give up. I have a daughter who is now 7 and was thankful to have had a child before these negative events. Currently, I am pregnant again. I am just beginning my second trimester and am cautiously optomistic. I am 39 with higher risks than younger woman having children. I am hopeful that this will be a successful pregnancy.

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