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Go the Distance

Exploring International Adoption

Part One

By Michele St. Martin

Many questions surround international adoption. To begin with, how does a single person, couple or family make the choice to adopt internationally? How much does it all cost? How do you choose the country? Where do you find the agency to represent you? What about all that paperwork? The issues may seem endless and bewildering, but the right information will have you ready for action. 

Almost all adopters are concerned with cost. Because international adoption expenses vary so much from country to country, depending on factors such as agency fees, in-country travel costs and other variables, it's impossible to state an "average" cost. However, many sources site price ranges of $15,000 to $25,000. The cost includes the following:

• Agency fees
• A homestudy, if not prepared by the adoption agency
• Fees required by the foreign country
• Document gathering fees
• Travel to and within the country

Having an acquaintance, friend or family member who has adopted from a particular country may make adopting from that country seem less daunting. You also may be drawn to a particular country's culture. Personal and social circumstances also play a role. While some countries, such Colombia, Equador and Peru, favor younger parents, others, such as China, may prefer older ones (China does not allow anyone younger than 30 years of age to adopt).

Some people may not wish to travel to the country to adopt the child, or may want their time in the country to be limited. The time requirements on in-country travel vary widely – Korea and India do not require that adoptive parents travel, and escorts may be arranged to bring the child to parents waiting at a major U.S. airport. At the opposite extreme is Colombia, which requires up to seven weeks in country.

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